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This is one of the toughest conversations to start having with your kids, for all sorts of reasons. Let this free parents’ guide hold your hand through the issues. The more knowledge you have of what kids are facing today, the more confident you’ll feel about engaging with them and not being put off by smart remarks such as “you’re out of touch”. Parents are the most important source of guidance for their children. Many teens we speak to say they wish their parents would be more proactive in discussing these challenging matters. While the government is introducing legislation soon to keep kids away from commercial porn sites, for now they can still access it easily and also via social media sites and gaming. The government is working on those platforms too to reduce access and protect children’s health.

Cov yeeb yaj duab luv li keeb kwm yav dhau

Cov niam txiv phau ntawv no yuav pab koj npaj koj tus kheej txoj kev kawm txog kev porn (thiab kev sib tw ua si thiab kev sib raug zoo) cuam tshuam rau menyuam lub hlwb thiab tus cwj pwm hnub no, peb xav kom cov yeeb yaj kiab plaub no. Nws yuav siv sij hawm tsawg tshaj li ib teev ntawm koj lub sijhawm kom tau ib qho zoo ntawm qhov teeb meem.

Thawj zaug yog 4-feeb TED tham los ntawm Stanford University xib fwb Philip Zimbardo hu ua "Lub Demise ntawm Guys". Qhov thib ob yog Gary Wilson tus TEDx tham "Lub Porn Tua Zoo"Uas teb Zimbardo txoj kev sib tw, (16 mins). Ob lub hom phiaj rau kev siv los ntawm cov tub hluas, tab sis hnub no cov menyuam ntxhais muaj kev nce qib ntawm kev lag luam ntawm kev sib tham ntawm kev tshaj tawm, cov yeeb yaj duab yeeb yaj kiab thiab cov khoom ua si sib deev.

Yuav kom nkag siab txog ntau npaum li cas li ntawm billion billion tech companies siv 'haub tsim' cov cuab yeej siv rau "sib zog ua" peb cov menyuam txoj kev mloog thiab tsim teeb meem siv thiab txawm tias tseem ceeb hauv qee yam, saib qhov thib peb TEDx. Ntawm no tus neeg hais lus piav qhia li cas cov tuam txhab tech companies siv lawv cov kev paub txog ntawm kev xav txog kev xav thiab kev xav rau lub hlwb kom paub lub hlwb tsis nco qab kom lawv technology khoom thiaj li tsim-ua (13 mins).

Qhov no TEDx tham los ntawm xib fwb Gail Dines "Loj hlob hauv kev ua plees ua yig"(13 mins) rub tsis muaj punches hauv piav qhia txog qhov txawv porn li cas hnub no los ntawm porn ntawm yav dhau los thiab yog vim li cas niam txiv yuav tsum xyuam xim yog tias lawv xav kom lawv cov me nyuam muaj lub neej kev noj qab haus huv rau yav tom ntej.

Qee cov yeeb yaj kiab funny thiab cov animations

Ntawm no yog ib qho zoo nkauj Tedx tham (16 mins) hu ua "Porn Skews Kev Txiav Txim Siab Ntawm Kev Sib Deev"Los ntawm ib tug niam txiv niam thiab poj niam txiv neej Cindy Pierce. Nws niam txiv phau ntawv qhia hais tias yog vim li cas kev sib tham nrog koj cov menyuam txog porn thiaj li tsim nyog thiab ua li cas lawv nyiam. Saib nram qab no rau ntau cov kev pabcuam txog kev yuav ua licas.

Qhov no yog ib qho zoo me me yees duab kev pom zoo. Cov menyuam nyiam nws. Mus saib peb cov web pages rau xav paub ntxiv txog kev tso cai thiab cov hluas.

Xav saib cov ntawv luv luv, zippy animation rau cov me nyuam txog porn yees? Qhov no yog ib ntev animation uas yeej piav txog cov hauv paus.

Peb cov niam txiv phau ntawv qhia muaj cov ntsiab lus los ntawm cov kws kho paj hlwb nyob rau hauv lub hlwb me.

Ntawm no yog ib qho zoo heev 3 feeb tham raws li cov niam txiv phau ntawv qhia rau cov hluas thiab nws txoj kev puas tsuaj rau kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Nws yog xibfwb Nora Volkow tus thawj coj ntawm lub tebchaws United States National Institute for Drugs. Thaum koj muaj sij hawm ntau, tus yees duab no (14 mins) los ntawm UK xibfwb Sarah Jayne Blakemore hu ua qhov kev ua haujlwm ntawm cov hluas uas tsis meej pem piav qhia txog lub hlwb me nyuam muaj zog. Nws yog tus txheej txheem zoo, tab sis nws tsis qhia txog kev saib duab liab qab thiab nws cov teebmeem.

Qhov no tham ntev zog hu ua “Lub Hlwb Raws Li Kev Tsim Kho: Lub Tsev Raws Li Txoj Cai Mus Li Lub Zog Yav Tom Ntej”Los ntawm Dr Baler (50 mins, pib ntawm 7 feeb hauv) ntawm Asmeskas Lub Koom Haum Hauv Tebchaws ntawm Kev Tsim Txom Tshuaj yog qhov zoo heev. Nws saib seb cov hluas lub hlwb muaj peev xwm mus tsis taus li cas los ntawm cov tshuaj lom stimuli xws li duab liab qab, kev twv txiaj, tshuaj, dej cawv thiab lwm yam. Cov. Kev mus twv txiaj ntawm kev twvtxiaj, kev twvtxiaj thiab saib duab liab qab nyob rau lub sijhawm tamsis no raug lees paub los ntawm cov kws paub hauv lub World Health Organization tias tuaj yeem hloov lub hlwb tau tibyam li kev siv yeeb tshuaj thiab lwm yam yeeb-tshuaj ntawm kev tsim txom. Daim vis dis aus tau qhia txog yuav ua li cas peb tuaj yeem pab cov tub ntxhais hluas txhim kho kom rov muaj yees dua.

Koj tus menyuam lub hlwb ntawm porn

  1. Qhia koj tus menyuam tias kev siv liab qab pauv li cas rau lawv tsim lub hlwb over time is key. It’s not just children with attachment issues or trauma in their childhood who are at risk of harms. Even healthy brains can be become hooked on excess use. See videos in this parents’ guide above and elsewhere on this website. Knowing more about how the brain works can help them become aware of their own use of sexual content. It will allow your kids to take steps to find healthier ways to learn about sex and divert themselves from constantly thinking about it. Younger children need more boundaries, older children need to be encouraged to take care of their own health and the wellbeing of potential partners. Porn use increases sexual frustration too.
  2. Cov porn pauv hauv Internet yog txoj kev uas cov hluas ua rau lub hlwb sib deev. Psychologists hu nws lub "kev sib deev arousal template“. It normally becomes active at puberty as children start to explore their sexual selves, but early exposure to porn can lead to oversexualised behaviour in younger children.
  3. Kev sib deev nyob porn xya lub hlis thiab ntau xyoo yuav ua rau ntau tus neeg xav tau kev zoo siab rau kev sib deev. Hnyav ntxim siab yuav tau txhais tau tias thaum lawv tau nrog ib tus neeg tiag tiag lawv yuav hnov me me los sis tsis muaj siab. Mloog tus tub hluas no zaj dabneeg. Saib seb porn muaj peev xwm cuam tshuam rau cov hluas cov poj niam heev.
Tswv yim rau kev tham nrog cov menyuam
  1. Txhua tus niam txiv phau ntawv qhia yuav tsum hais "Tsis txhob liam thiab txaj muag" a child for watching pornography. It is everywhere online, popping up in social media and in music videos. It can be hard to avoid. Other kids pass it on for a laugh or bravado, or your child may stumble across it. They may of course be actively seeking it out too. Just forbidding your child from watching it only makes it more tempting, for as the old saying goes, ‘txwv tsis pub txiv hmab txiv ntoo saj zoo nkauj'.
  2. Khaws cov kab ntawm kev sib txuas lus qhib yog li ntawd koj yog lawv thawj qhov chaw nres nkoj los sib tham txog teeb meem ntawm porn. Me nyuam yeej xav paub txog kev sib daj sib deev los ntawm cov hluas. Porn online hauv internet zoo li txoj kev txias kom paub yuav ua li cas kom zoo thaum sib deev. Qhib thiab ncaj ncees txog koj tus kheej txog kev saib duab liab qab. Xav txog kev tham txog koj tus kheej raug porn los ua ib tug neeg hluas, txawm tias nws tsis xis nyob.
  3. Cov menyuam tsis xav tau ib qho kev sib tham loj txog kev pw ua ke. Lawv xav tau ntau yam kev sib tham over time as they go through the teen years. Each must be age appropriate, ask for help if you need it. Fathers and mothers both need to play a role in educating themselves and their kids about the impact of technology today.
Cov niam txiv txoj kev qhia kom txawj qhia koj tus kheej txog kev cuam tshuam ntawm kev siv smartphone
  1. Qhia rau koj cov me nyuam paub tias Porn yog tsim los ntawm multi-billion dollar tech companies mus rau "sib ntsib" cov neeg siv tsis pub lawv paub txog kev coj cwj pwm kom lawv rov qab los ntxiv. Nws yog txhua yam txog kev ceev faj. Tuam txhab uas muag muag thiab qhia cov ntaub ntawv sib luag ntawm tus neeg siv lub siab nyiam thiab tus cwj pwm rau peb tog thiab cov neeg tshaj tawm. Nws yog tsim kom muaj kev ua si zoo li online gaming, kev twvtxiaj thiab kev tshajtawm rau cov neeg siv los rov qab tuaj rau lub sijhawm sai li sai tau thaum lawv muaj kev nyuaj siab lossis txhawj xeeb.
  2. Kev nrog tawm tsam: Cov me nyuam yuav tawm tsam thawj zaug, tab sis muaj ntau tus me nyuam tau qhia rau lawv tias lawv xav kom lawv niam lawv txiv rau txim pub dawb rau lawv thiab qhia kom lawv paub tseeb thaj tsam. Koj tsis ua koj tus me nyuam rau tej yam zoo los ntawm lawv 'txhais' rau lawv tus kheej.
  3. Tsis txhob xav tias txhaum rau kev nqis tes ua nrog rau koj cov me nyuam. Lawv lub paj hlwb thiab kev noj qab nyob zoo heev ntawm koj txhais tes. Npaj koj tus kheej nrog txoj kev paub thiab qhib lub plawv los pab koj tus me nyuam taug kev lub caij nyuaj rau kev txhim kho. Nov yog tswv yim los ntawm ib tug me nyuam hlwb.
Cov tswv yim tswv yim hais txog smartphones
  1. Rov qab muab koj tus menyuam tso smartphone lossis ntsiav tshuaj for as long as possible. Mobile phones mean you can stay in contact. While it may seems like a reward for hard work in primary or elementary school to present your child with a smartphone on entering secondary school, observe what it is doing to their academic attainment in the months that follow. Do children really need 24 hour-a-day access to the internet? While children might receive a lot of online homework assignments, can entertainment use be restricted to 60 minutes a day, even as an experiment? There are ntau ntawm cov apps los saib xyuas kev siv internet xws li kev lom zem. Cov me nyuam 2 xyoo thiab hauv qab yuav tsum tsis txhob siv cov ntxaij lim dej txhua.
  2. Tua internet thaum tsaus ntuj. Los yog, ntawm qhov tsawg tshaj plaws, tshem tag nrho cov xov tooj thiab ntsiav tshuaj ntawm koj tus me nyuam chav pw. Tsis muaj kev pw tsaug zog yog ua rau kev ntxhov siab, kev nyuaj siab thiab kev ntxhov siab nyob rau ntau cov menyuam hnub no. Lawv yuav tsum tau pw tsaug zog rov qab los pab lawv nruab hnub txoj kev kawm, pab lawv loj hlob, paub txog lawv txoj kev xav thiab paub zoo.
  3. Tsis ntev los no kev tshawb fawb qhia tias cov ntxaij lim dej nkaus xwb yuav tsis tiv thaiv koj cov menyuam los ntawm kev nkag mus saib cov duab liab qab hauv online. Phau ntawv no niam txiv qhia tias yuav tsum ceev cov kev sib txuas lus qhib ua qhov tseem ceeb. Kev ua porn nyuaj rau kev nkag tau txawm li ntawd yeej yog ib qho zoo pib tshwj xeeb nrog cov me nyuam yaus. Nws tsim nyog muab cov ntxaij lim dej nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov internet pab kiag li lawm thiab ua kom paub tseeb tias lawv ua hauj lwm. Nov yog qee yam peb tau hnov ​​txog. Thov kos nrog NSPCC lossis Childline lossis CEOP rau cov lus qhia txog qhov tseeb.

Cov Apps yuav pab tau li cas?

  1. Muaj ntau ntau lwm cov software thiab kev txhawb nqa. Ikydz yog ib qho app tso cai rau cov niam txiv los saib xyuas lawv cov menyuam siv. Tus neeg saib xyuas Gallery ceeb toom rau cov niam txiv thaum muaj ib qho duab txawv txawv hauv lawv tus me nyuam lub cuab yeej. Nws deals nrog cov kev pheej hmoo ncig sexting.
  2. lub sij hawm ntawd yog ib tug dawb app uas tso cai rau ib tug neeg los saib xyuas lawv cov kev siv online, teem caij thiab tau txais kev txav thaum mus txog cov kev txwv ntawd. Cov neeg siv tau muaj kev xav rau kev ntsuas lawv cov kev siv los ntawm cov paj zoo. Cov app no ​​zoo ib yam tab sis tsis pub dawb. Nws pab tib neeg reboot lawv lub hlwb nrog kev pab raws li txoj kev. Nws hu ua Brainbuddy.
  3. Ntawm no yog qee qhov kev pab cuam uas tej zaum yuav siv tau: Cov Lees Qhov Muag; Tsov ntoo; NetNanny; Mobicip; Qustodio Niam Txiv Kev Tswj; WebWatcher; Norton Family Premiere; OpenDNS Tsev VIP; PureSight Zov. Ntawm no yog ib tsab xov xwm thiab daim ntawv teev txij Lub Xya Hli 2019 los ntawm PC World. Lawv qhov tsos nyob hauv daim ntawv teev npe no tsis yog qhov pom zoo los ntawm The Reward Foundation.

Koj lub paj hlwb ntawm Porn

Muaj ntau yam kev pabcuam muaj los pab cov niamtxiv nrog rau qhov kev qhia no. Cov phau ntawv zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua lag luam yog los ntawm peb cov tub ceev xwm tshawb nrhiav Gary Wilson (peb xav hais tias tab sis nws tshwm sim muaj tseeb) thiab hu ua "Koj lub paj hlwb ntawm Porn: Internet Pornography thiab Kev Tshaj Tawm Txog Kev Yeeb Tshuaj". Nws yog ib phau ntawv zoo heev ntawm cov niam txiv. Gary yog ib tus xib fwb zoo tshaj plaws uas piav txog lub hlwb lub nqi zog los yog kev txhawb zog rau txoj hauv kev yooj yim heev rau cov kws tshawb fawb. Phau ntawv yog ib qho kev hloov tshiab rau nws nrov TEDx tham ntawm 2012. Nws yog kev txhawb nqa los ntawm koj lub npe ntawm yourbrainonporn.com, qhov loj tshaj plaws thiab feem ntau muaj kev qhia txog cov duab liab qab hauv Internet.

Tej yam porn ua tau ntau dua los ntawm ntau pua lub suab paj nruag rov qab los ntawm cov hluas thiab cov laus, thiab qee tus poj niam thiab. Ntau tus pib kawm porn nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog.

Phau ntawv no muaj nyob hauv paperback, rau Kindle lossis ua ib qho audiobook. Nws tau muab kho dua thaum Lub Kaum Hli 2018 los saib xyuas lub koom haum World Health Organization paub txog ntawm ib qho kev ntsuam xyuas tshiab ntawm "Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder". Cov txhais lus muaj nyob rau hauv Dutch, Arabic thiab Hungarian kom deb li deb, nrog rau lwm tus hauv lub raj xa dej.

Ntawm no yog cov npe ntawm kev tshawb fawb cov khoom dhau los, tsim nyog muaj nqis.

Lwm cov ntawv nyeem

  1. Xib fwb thiab psychologist Collett Smart tau coj tawm ib phau ntawv tshiab "Lawv yuav ua li cas: 15 sib tham los pab koj tus me nyuam txog kev ntxhov siab"Nws ua li nws hais ntawm daim ntawv lo.
  1. Tus kws kho mob rau tus me nyuam Drick Dunckley phau ntawv "Pib dua koj tus menyuam lub hlwb"Thiab nws dawb blog piav qhia txog cov teebmeem ntawm lub sijhawm ntau dhau ntawm tus menyuam lub hlwb. Qhov tseem ceeb nws teev tawm tswv yim rau cov niam txiv ua tau los pab lawv tus me nyuam rov qab taug qab dua.

Dr Dunckley tsis cais porn siv tab sis tsom rua kev siv internet hauv feem ntau. Nws hais tias txog 80% ntawm cov menyuam nws pom tsis muaj teeb meem kev mob hlwb uas lawv tau raug kuaj thiab tshuaj rau, xws li ADHD, kev puas siab puas ntsws bipolar, kev nyuaj siab, kev ntxhov siab thiab lwm yam, tiam sis nws muaj qhov nws hu ua 'electronic screen syndrome. ' Qhov zoo li no muaj cov tsos mob ntawm cov kev mob hlwb tshwm sim ntau. Cov teeb meem kev mob hlwb feem ntau yuav kho tau / txo kom txo tau cov cuab yeej hluav taws xob rau ib lub sij hawm ntawm 3 lub lis piam feem ntau.

Nws phau ntawv piav qhia txog tias cov niam txiv tuaj yeem ua li cas hauv niam txiv txoj kev qhia ua niam txiv nrog kev sib koom tes nrog tus menyuam lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Cov Ntawv Rau Cov Menyuam Yau

"Pandora's box qhib. Tam sim no kuv ua dab tsi? " Gail Poyner yog ib tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws thiab muab cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb ntawm cov hlwb thiab kev ua haujlwm yoojyim kom pab tau me nyuam xav txog kev xaiv.

"Cov duab zoo, Phem duab"Los ntawm Kristen Jensen thiab Gail Poyner. Tsis tas li ntawd, yog ib phau ntawv zoo rau ntawm tus menyuam lub hlwb.

Tsis yog rau menyuam. Tiv thaiv Me Nyuam. Liz Walker tau sau ib phau ntawv yooj yim rau cov menyuam yaus uas muaj cov duab zoo nkauj.

Dawb cov kev pabcuam hauv online rau cov niam txiv

  1. Yav dhau los tus xib fwb thiab tus sau, Dr Gail Dines, tus founder ntawm Culture Reframed. Nws thiab nws pab neeg tau tsim ib qho twj zoo tshaj plaws, uas yuav pab tau cov niam txiv tuaj yeem tsim cov me nyuam mos liab liab qab. Pom cov Kev Txhim Kho Cov Kev Kawm Rau Cov Niam Txiv. Nws muab kev pabcuam nrog cov kev sib tham tseem ceeb nrog menyuam yaus. A great parents’ guide.
  2. Zoo pub dawb lub tswv yim los ntawm kev tsim txom los ntawm kev tsim txom los ntawm menyuam yaus Nres Nws Tam Sim No! Cov Niam Txiv Tiv Thaiv
  3. Nov yog qhov tseem ceeb tshiab daim ntawv qhia los ntawm Internet teeb meem ntawm kev nyab xeeb hauv internet thiab cov kab lis kev cai nrog cov tswv yim yuav ua li cas kom koj tus me nyuam muaj kev ruaj ntseg thaum caij nthwv dej.
  4. Tswv yim los ntawm NSPCC txog kev porn online.
  5. Rau cov niam txiv hauv Scotland hu rau Cov Menyuam 1st.

Cov websites rov qab

Feem ntau ntawm cov ntaub ntawv dawb rov qab cov websites xws li koj lub npe ntawm yourbrainonporn.com; RebootNation.org; PornHelp; NoFap.com; Fightthenewdrug.org; Mus rau Greatness thiab Txuas ntxiv rau Internet Porn are secular but have religious users too. Useful for parents to look at to get an idea of what those in recovery have experienced and are now coping with as they adjust.

Kev ntseeg-raws li kev pab

Muaj cov kev pabcuam zoo rau kev ntseeg hauv lub zejzog xws li Siab Ncig Rov Qab Los rau Catholics, rau cov ntseeg feem ntau Neeg Tsis Muaj Tseeb Dab Tsi (UK) Cas Porn Harms (Asmeskas), thiab MuslimMatters rau cov ntawm txoj kev ntseeg Islamic. Thov hu rau peb yog tias muaj lwm cov phiaj xwm kev ntseeg peb tuaj yeem kos npe.

Autism Spectrum Disorder

Yog tias koj muaj menyuam yaus uas tau raug tshuaj xyuas tias yog nyob ntawm tus kabmob muaj autism, koj yuav tsum paub tias koj tus menyuam yuav muaj feem ua rau pom kev saib duab liab qab ntau dua li cov menyuam yaus neurotypical. Yog tias koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam yuav nyob ntawm lub ntsej muag, nws yog ib lub tswv yim zoo kom muaj lawv ntsuas yog tias ua tau. Cov tub hluas tshwj xeeb nrog ASD lossis cov xav tau kev kawm tshwj xeeb yog cov tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm cov txheeb cais txog kev ua txhaum kev sib deev. Autism spectrum cuam tshuam yog neurological mob tam sim no txij thaum yug los. Nws tsis yog kev mob hlwb. Nws cuam tshuam txog 1: 100 neeg. Thaum nws yog ib tug ntau ntau cov mob ntawm cov txiv neej, poj niam kuj tuaj yeem muaj nws ib yam nkaus. Xav paub ntau ntxiv nyeem cov blogs ntawm liab qab thiab cov tsi txawj has lug; ib leej niam zaj dab neeg; thiab Autism: qhov tseeb los yog fake?

Tsoom Fwv Tsoom Fwv

The UK Government is due to introduce age verification legislation in part III of the Digital Economy Act 2017 to restrict access by under 18 year olds to internet pornography by early 2020. See no for support and no for the official view. See this blog txog nws kom paub meej ntxiv. Nws yog vim los ntawm kev siv rau 15th Lub Xya Hli 2019 tab sis tau muab ncua rau 6 lub hlis. Nco ntsoov tias yog koj tus me nyuam yog tus siv, koj tsis paub los yog xav paub nws, tab sis, yog tias muaj, nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem ua rau muaj cov tsos mob tawm thiab cuam tshuam rau lawv tus cwj pwm.

Kev pab ntxiv los ntawm Lub Rooj Sab Laj Foundation

Thov hu rau peb yog tias muaj ib cheeb tsam twg koj xav kom peb tham txog qhov no. Peb yuav tsim ntau cov ntaub ntawv ntawm peb lub vev xaib rau lub hli tom ntej. Sau npe tuaj rau peb tsab ntawv xov xwm e-Cov Xov Xwm (Rewarding News) (ntawm ko taw ntawm nplooj) thiab ua raws li peb hauv Twitter (@brain_love_sex) rau cov kev tshwm sim tshiab.

Cov Niam Txiv Cov Lus Qhia tau raug kho tshiab 20 Cuaj Hlis 2019

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